The five stages of Red John grief are:
1-Denial-"this can't be happening"
2-Anger-"why him?"
3-Bargaining-"if you dont pick who i want, i'll hate you forever"
4-Depression-"what is there to live for if it isn't my suspect"
5-Acceptance-"I do not know everything"
You will heal, even if you cannot
believe that now, just know that it is true. To feel butthurt after failure is
normal. It proves that you are alive and that you are overdramatic. But you can't stop watching. You have to become smarter, while not shutting off your common sense for the
hope of one day being healed and finding the clues again.
Helping others through similar butthurt is a wonderful way
to fascilitate your healing and bring good out of all the whining.
