Where do i begin? Red John made that video 2 months before Patrick made the list of 7,that can mean only 1 thing. Obviously Red john isn't psychic so that's out of the way,the only other explanation is he knew who would be on that list early is because he made it himself. Bruno Heller is right when he says Patrick is not Red john, Rj is another person (personaltiy) sharing the same body as Patrick (the other personality). His past was rough,he was probably traumatized by his upbringing thus getting a split personality disorder. Now,clues shown to us in the show are as follows ;

1) Whoever has a personal vendetta with Patrick ends up dead. Luther Wainwright,the serial killer panzer.

2) He destroyed his happy memory that nobody else knew.

3) In the latest episode,did you see Patrick's expression when he asked Lisbon where she was on his phone? He had a grin on his face as if he knew. Also,when Lisbon was waiting outside the house did you notice that a car passed her when she was waiting? At that time Patrick was driving aswell.

There are many more clues which i'll post later because this post has become too long.