I know its Gale Bertram. Lorelei said the thingy with the hand shaking, right?
so she had to be there watching "Red John" and Jane shaking hands, RIGHT?
So, there is a little video where Bertram and Jane are shaking hands
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=66iBKnc4wlA
Look closely at Minute 1:29 top of the right corner who is standing there.
What do you think? I'm pretty sure its Lorelei. Let me know what you think about that. :)